Can Regular Cadences Reduce Relationship Anxiety?

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What happens when a creative side project starts to gain traction—but the founders have different ideas about how far to take it?

In this unusually raw episode of Supra Insider, Marc and Ben invite their longtime friend and coach Josh Herzig-Marx to facilitate a live coaching session—on the podcast. Together, they explore the tension between friendship and business, how to manage an unequal split in effort, and whether to go “all in” on Insider Loops or preserve what’s already working.

This episode is for anyone navigating high-stakes collaborations, co-founder relationships, or creative projects that start as fun, but might be worth so much more.

Expect vulnerability, laughter, some hard truths, and surprisingly actionable advice on alignment, contribution, and staying friends while building together.

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In this episode, we covered the following topics:

* (01:55) The intent behind recording a live coaching session

* (04:36) Marc & Ben’s backstory as friends and collaborators

* (09:32) Launching the podcast and Insider Loops

* (17:49) Debating monetization: values, brand integrity, and potential upside

* (22:28) The podcast as a stabilizing force—personally and professionally

* (30:01) The transitioning period in Ben’s life

* (43:44) The shared challenge with this personal and professional relationship

* (49:13) Unpacking fairness: hours spent vs impact made

* (56:26) Trust, tradeoffs, and marginal utility when lives are different

* (1:05:03) Should they try playing Insider Loops on “hard mode”?

* (1:09:31) Wrapping up with clarity, superpowers, and gratitude

* And more!

Links:

* Joshua Herzig-Marx Website: https://joshua.herzig-marx.com/

* Joshua Herizg-Marx: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joshuaherzigmarx/

* Marc: https://www.linkedin.com/in/marcbaselga/

* Ben: https://www.linkedin.com/in/benerez/

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