
How to Find True Self-Love: The Key to Attracting Your Beloved with Margaret Paul, Ph.D [EP008]
Deeper Dating Podcast
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Self Love and the Interbonding Process
There's only two loving ways of managing a conflict with somebody. One is you move into an intention to learn with them and see if they're going to be open to it. The other healthy response is what i call lovingly disengaging. In that state, we are in the lower part of our brain called the amigula. We just want to win, we want to not lose. And so we can't get anywhere when either one or both of us are not open to learning.
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