This is a Fan Fav episode. From growing up in a world where women were told to disappear and serveâand taught their worth was only found in silence and subservienceâto writing a book called Brazen and stepping into the world as an empowered entrepreneur, Julia Haartâs story is one of radical transformation, resilience, and the relentless pursuit of freedom. In this episode, I sit down with Julia to uncover how she facedâand still facesâthe deeply ingrained fears and shame of her upbringing, how she redefined her worth, and her honest truth that confidence isnât the absence of fear, but having the courage to act anyway.
With raw stories, stubborn hope, and practical wisdom, Julia lays out how to break free from limiting beliefs, rewrite your narrative, and boldly claim your own powerâeven when every part of you wants to retreat to the background.
SHOWNOTES
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Growing up trained to disappear: why invisibility was the measure of a âgoodâ woman (00:00:00)
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The spiritual âhighâ of self-negationâand its hidden costs (00:04:21)
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Confronting core beliefs: discovering your cage is made of thoughts, not steel (00:08:13)
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Small rebellions that matter: fighting back by refusing to be uncomfortable for someone elseâs rules (00:17:25)
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Surviving the impossible: why Julia didnât give upâthanks to her daughterâs courage (00:21:15)
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The lifelong process of âdeprogrammingâ and how even Julia still catches herself people-pleasing (00:34:17)
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Forgiveness, patience, and living as a work in progressâletting go of shame bit by bit (00:38:17)
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Taking bold leaps while still feeling fear: what it really means to be âbrazenâ and how to attack new opportunities (00:43:14)
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Why being a lifelong learner is non-negotiable for growth and reinvention (00:46:39)
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Final lessons: why your only fence is in your mind, and itâs time to break free (00:30:02, referenced later in conversation)
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