You're So Good at That

There's no right or wrong way to do it. There's effective and less effective. If you say something that directly contradicts their perception of themselves, chances are it'll bounce right off. Wht you wat to do is come at it from aside agle. You're so good at that. Why? Because they are. It could even be that they just display slightly above basic competency but that's how you start with someone. Emotions are what connects us. Connection is often what people have intimate relationships for.