Why Is It So Hard?

i struggle with it when any hin happens tough, it's like, why me? This is so hard. No one else has to deal with us. And then i stop and os like, well,why me? Why do i get this opportunity to grow? Because life is a journey of either getting a little bit better or a little bit worse. It's never stagnant. So the second that you entertain some of the negative patterns of like wy me, how how can i overcome this? Cause you spend one second too long on the problem and not on the solution,. Its is complete meaningless, ins completely pointless.