We know innately that our survival on the planet is linked to not being rejected. We don't die of rejection anymore, but we still feel like we will. So if everyone's giving you negative feedback or critical feedback, how does someone not let her affect them? You can talk to girls, realizing even though they say no, you're not my type. But even ooh, not no. They can any reject if you let that in. Bullying is just dominating. It's a bit like a seesaw, the bully feels there at the bottom and you're above them. And so when someone says, yes, I am trying to hurt your feelings, you simply reply,