I remember one time we were. we went out to go see a movie and all that. And I did I think was already having a pretty like rough time that week or something like that. My dad just kind of went on a really angry rant the whole time. Kind of what my mom would tell me. What would she say? Well, my mom would be like. Oh, he had some bad thing is job or something happened like that. Sometimes I think that man up is the male equivalent of when people tell women to. Like go into the kitchen and make me a sandwich kind of thing.