When Women Date Me, They Get So Insecure

I think instinctively i want to defend this guy in that he can easily sound arrogant with that message of saying, when women date me, they get so insecure. But what about the notion that when some one is right for you, and you should be able to just be yourself? And if your self right now is someone who has insecurities, which of course we all do. If you're someone who has certain anxieties, doesn't that fit into the category of just being yourself? Shouldn't you be able to be those things, knowing that its the right person,. They will be able to handle that and understand that. What do you think?