You Want to Explore, but You Don't Explore

"It's literally impossible to be bad at exploring because all exploring requires is to go someplace you haven't been before." "I never felt like I was good at it and it's just it takes a lot of time. It's hard," he says, adding that dating this one person would be easier than going on first dates with new people. 'You're so worried that this girl wants to date you more than you want to date her But you have an aster about it,' the writer adds. "'There are three paths in front of you All three of which are valid' You know what's not valid is walking in between those paths Because those aren't paths'"