You Have No Control Over Your Wife's Behavior

"This is not something you 're goin to have to stay in. This is just a storm that you are going to weather, and you will weather it," says Bdy. "Get yourself some counselling. Go to a profess tonal marriage counsellor and let them speak into your life", he adds. He also advises against texting his ex-wife because she'll take back emotional content with him.