Anger and Blaming in Adulthood

As a parent you have to tolerate some anxiety, right? If you don't really, it really sucks not to be chosen. You know what I mean? That they would rather spend time with their friends than yourself. Right. So you, so being in tune to the anxiety is important and as a parent, we are. But if you're over in tuned to the internal state of anxiety that may make you more preoccupied with the dangers of the outside world,. The message then becomes to the infant and the developing child, world is not safe. Don't go too far away.