The Importance of Community in a White Progressive Culture

I think I went from a sort of like what's best for my kid question and how can I get her whatever is best for her to what's good for all kids. And then it got really a lot easier it was like oh yeah that all makes sense to me that like that feels really right. So then it makes it much easier to be like we made a choice that felt uncomfortable at the time because we didn't have a lot of peers who were making that same choice. But ultimatelylike it feels a lot psychically easier to live inside of the choice we made for me at this point.