How Do I Detach When Things Are Escalating?

The default I think for, you know, your average person is how it's not like, okay, what's the scenario? What's the problem to be solved? How do I solve it? It's more, how do I feel about this? You know, now that we're thinking about it, I bet. So as a young seal in, in cadre at seal team one, we would, I'm sitting there as an E5 sealed,. Not in charge of anything, but I'm watching the, the situation unfold. And so I always got to see how much more you can see when you are attached. When you first became a bouncer, and there was a