Episode 38: You Want Connection, Your Partner Wants Sex. Who Comes First?
Pillow Talks
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Heterosexual Sex and Performance Anxiety
"i wrestled with it for a long time in my own head i didn't even want to tell the zander that i was thinking this for a while so i was just playing around with it," says author. "The sex that we wound up having was terrible yeah it was never good there were definitely times where you couldn't perform it but even when you could like it felt disconnected it felt disconnected honestly the word that was coming to my mind was gross like it."
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