How to Love Your Wife

"Our default is selfishness. And that's exactly what we're called to not do," she says. "To love each other like Christ love us, which was relentless pursuit." Women were very anxious about their husbands and how they would be perceived by them if they didn't have a ring on the right hand of God. But there was nothing extravagant or expensive when it came to getting your husband to pursue you.