The I It Relationship

Sally Kohn: We tend to go into either a kind of a weak position or like what appears to be a strength position, but it's not actually strength. A straight position coming from strength is I love who I am. And I would love to do this with you. She says the opposite is more like treating somebody like a you and seeing them as a legitimate others.Kohn: Martin Boobers theory of connection talks about two ways that we can relate to other people.