How to Deal With a Conflict in a Relationship

Some problems are actually unsolvable in the sense that there will always be major differences between you. The goal is to, quote, de-claw the issue and try to remove the hurt so that the problem stops being a source of great pain. If you find yourself getting into a power struggle with your partner, step away from trying to find resolution,. Stop trying to solve the unsolvable problem and instead put all of your energy and attention into seeking to understand where your partner is coming from.