The Cognitive Dissonance of Kinks

Kinksters have very conflicting opinions on race play, whether they're foreign or against it. The cognitive dissonance is huge. I'm not really sure though why people are shocked when people say that things like the dating world or sex in general is also racist. And it's just as well, particularly men who start thinking that women are some sort of pick and mix assortment that they can just choose from. Like I've had guys, you know, say I want to have sex with,. you know, with a woman of every skin tunnel from every continent.