The Importance of Teamwork in Relationships

The most banal thing is like, who does laundry? Who falls to laundry? Does laundry get put away in the drawer or does it stay in the laundry basket? How often does this happen? Who pays the bills? People who have a tendency towards this controlling kind of invalidation wind up taking over for a lot of different things because they have stronger opinions about the way that things should be done. The message that is sent to their partner is you're not doing it right and I am taking this away from you.