"Do you know what a sum scar is? A refresher, please. So, like, sometimes we have emotion that gets so, when our mind experiences emotion, we can either bury it or process it," he says. "A lot of the emotion that gets buried then manifests later in life, in particular circumstances." 'I'm going to try to like summarize what i understand as your situation, and i'm going to give you, like, a couple of options,' she adds.