How to Balance Happiness and Joy

Happiness is something you have to figure out for yourself, but the good news is it's completely doable. The problem is that you have to live up to your own moral code. You can pick a meaning or purpose that is antithetical to happiness. Or you could pick one that aligns with it. If I gave you, if there was a single purpose or meaning for all of us then we'd all be slaves to that single purpose. We'd all be robots. Every one of us fighting each other in conflict to get that one purpose.