In this foundational episode, I’m joined by Dr. Aline LaPierre, founder of the NeuroAffective Touch Institute and co-author of Healing Developmental Trauma.
We explore what Aileen calls the “arcline of touch”—how early touch experiences from the womb onward (birth, skin-to-skin contact, breastfeeding, diaper changing, self-pleasure discovery, and adolescent development) can shape our nervous system, sense of safety, and adult intimacy patterns.
This conversation offers a powerful reframe: many sexual and relational struggles aren’t “personal failures”—they’re often developmental touch imprints that can be repaired through attuned presence, pacing, and nervous-system-friendly contact.
We discuss:
- Touch as the “mother of the senses” and why it matters for intimacy
- How early pacing and “enough time” shape the nervous system
- The role of gaze, attunement, and emotional availability in bonding
- How diaper changes / potty training can imprint shame—or safety
- Why partners may be a “mismatch of receptors,” not a mismatch of love
- Repairing touch literacy: learning what kinds of touch your body prefers
- How nervous system safety supports pleasure and connection across lifespan
Somatic practice included: At the end, Dr. LaPierre leads a simple exercise to help reintegrate disconnected parts of your embodiment through breath + touch.
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