What's the Third Strategy?

Valentan: I would be lying to you if i didn't make some super painful mistakes in my life as an educator because ijust was following policy. And those things haunt me. But you have power. You have power to use who you are to save you know what? So much easier, though, if you're doing that fom the time you're in kindergarten. What is the what's the third strategy? It'sashyo, one of my favorites. Bea s essentially the most, the least, the best or worst.