Don't Have Boundaries in Relationships

If you don't have boundaries, or you're afraid of having them, even if you want to have them, you will just keep being in frustrating situations with shady people. And it's not because, oh, i'm attracting these like a magnet. Because there are people who have crappy boundaries and they also have loving people in their lives. They're each begging you to have better boundaries. When you choose that for yourself, what you find is that your family will still do things that they doo. You don't have to wait for things to be perfect. Don't procrastinate nirvana until you've reached this nirvana of this good enough -  you can