I think the way you're doing this, which is the counter to it over the opposite thing you should do. The next one is super obvious. Don't listen to them. And just take the exact same temple,. Which is the exact opposite of what you should do when somebody's telling you something. Yeah. There's the the joke at echelon front now where I have this, this, I don't know, does it have a name where I put my thumb under my chin and I curl my fingers and put them over my mouth. "What a nice little signal to the person that's trying to talk to you," he said.