How to Be Proud of Yourself

i don't know how to li kin of compliment people and tell them i'm proud of them. That's wer ecause i' no men. And would you tell your kid, good job? Would you think they need to do better? No, i think they'd be doing tot. Maybe lesure, if you like, greades don't matter that much. Right? So there's another can of worms. I tell hem, good jobi. As probably not what my parents sad to me, but i don't know way to say it.