The word why should generally speak, speaking be removed from a therapuss vocabulary. You want to just ask, you know, what am i misunderstanding? What am i missing? So that's the communication tip, never ask why. The other thing that you can always do is find a different therapist. Be careful about the weed, because the weed could be a big, big culprit as someone who's done a lot of work in adictions. People who are chronically using substances are just playing a completely different game, like what's easy for them and what they can't handle. And usually people who are focked up on opiates screwing up their life when they're not functional at all