i think it starts with you loving yourself i know that's a cliche yeah but if you're in that la word vibrationYeah well this is where you just want to attract a person that's going to be like playing games or fucking with you or hurting you. Find someone who doesn't care that there are no flowers no gifts just have every day be flowers and giftsWell that's very specific to us we did almost two hours 10 28 sorry anniversary 10 28 on 10 20 Well that's also find someone who doesn’t care that  there are no flowersNo gifts just has every day be Flowers and Gift Like Day Yeah sure but there are some people that that means something to them