13 Things That Helped Me Break the Hot Mess Identity

I wrote down 13 things that helped me break the hot mess identity. I no longer ever allowed myself to use outside circumstances as an excuse for being late, not showing up with lots of drama and the tornado behind me. Like I just didn't let anything be an excuse literally like I didn't allow myself to give an excuse to another human being. That was number one. Number two, I no longer allowed myself to speak to myself in a way that minimized my needs or put myself down. Another hot mess story that I kind of had about myself or identity I had about myself was I'm really needy. It would have me judging myself and minimizing that and dramatizing that instead of just