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first you you dance I dance are you currently single or in a relationship I'm single completely single and
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not looking for anything I love it I'm so happy with myself and I
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don't have sex in months so many months I don't even remember the last time I had sex to be honest with you are you
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just masturbating no like I'm so
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listen I didn't find
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anyone special enough that I would think like okay this one deserves to come here
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and write and find it yet
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you're spending time alone but I was crazy before I used to like fuck even like
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one person that would cross me on the street I'll be like you come here stop
Speaker 1
I would be like that how did you get that confidence just like go up to people
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because I was living I needed 24 seven at the time do you have a type of guy no girl breathing in
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the life I don't know
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there's something inside
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and this something for some reason I can feel it and then I'm like
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so there's no type I
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can literally show you three different acts boyfriends and you would be like what's the stance between these people I love that
Speaker 1
what do you think is like something that you're most attracted to in a person I
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think we're there when they're funny I love when they're funny
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like oh I love it and um it's so good when they are confident little aggressive but in a good way I like when they are aggressive in a good way not like abusive relation
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have you found yourself in um any like abusive relations oh yeah terrible but I
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need to just once and then never again like
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two months after this one guy ahead like for a year and something wow uh
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I can look if I'm starting with someone in one month I can feel it's abusing them like out can you
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try to give like if people are listening they're like fuck like I think I may be in one like do
Speaker 5
you have any like signs or things to look for yeah because in the beginning they let you feel very um comfortable you know and then they start to
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make you feel insecure about yourself
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without saying they don't say you are less or not you know yeah
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they just make they point it's like
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they point things in other people that they are actually talking about you but they pretend they're not
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and then oh honey I'm almost a psychologist I look and I'm
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like okay and then I start bringing shit
Speaker 1
over for themselves to think so you mean like they'll point something out in someone in a room yeah that like relates to you or is like what you don't
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have or or or just say like
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you see that's so bad oh my god kind of like to guide
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you how to not be are you usually the one breaking up with people or they oh
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yeah I need that
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to change though I think that's why I'm waiting so
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much I want things to be different got
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it what is like a deal breaker
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for you in a relationship
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when I feel suffocated
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I don't like that
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feel suffocated is the number one thing like when the guy doesn't let you breathe
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and like jealousy for no reason you know like
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too much come on
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or needy like I'm
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easy I want to talk to you like 24 seven come on give me a break give me a time to breathe right there's
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nothing more like unattractive which I get it we're all insecure but being a relationship with someone that's so insecure about you in the relationship it's like such a turn off you're like can you just like yeah get into therapy muster the
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courage when the guys tries his selfish he tries
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to say he's doing things for you but he's actually doing for him
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he doesn't want to be
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alone he is needy he doesn't
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want to stand with himself alone but he says that oh no I'm doing this
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for you come on you're not
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be fucking alone
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yeah for a little time can
Speaker 1
you give advice to women listening that are like okay we Anita you have not been with someone you're not hooking up with people like how are you so comfortable being alone so everything
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started and I hope people don't need that to change lives when I got sick
Speaker 3
that was like when I wasn't bad thinking I was gonna die I started look over all the things of my life and I started to see all the things that I didn't want to repeat again it's not
Speaker 5
that I don't want to have sex with people they were please God I'm down I'm open I'm free tonight I'm just saying
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rethinking the reason why I used to do things and how I was doing things and I want to do differently I don't want to
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have sex with a guy because I want him to fall in love for me or because I don't want
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to lose him I want to have sex because I feel like doing it because I feel like this guy
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my the screen going
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to you know I don't know and before I didn't used to like staying by myself
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mm-hmm I used to just like need friends every time in my house friends every
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time I needed people yep and now I
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don't need no but I can be alone like this for days you know cook my own food and be like
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life is beautiful I'm just here chilling
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and I feel like
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we need to ask ourselves why are we scared of the silence what is inside of us that we don't want to listen to
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you know what what
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we don't like about ourselves that we don't want to face it I'm not saying I regret the thousands of people I
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fucked I'm just saying right now I don't feel like
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maybe next month I feel like fucking thousands of people again just now I just feel like um
Speaker 1
not right now is it worth it I remember I went through almost this is I've never said this I almost went an entire year in my 20s where I did not have sex and I was
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like totally happy
Speaker 1
I'm so happy like it was like just like a reclaiming moment for myself of like I need to just figure my own shit out and I don't need any penis getting in the vicinity of me while I try to find
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I kind of want but it needs to be a
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great penis it needs to be a penis plus a brain
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a tongue plus so many things you know it needs to be uh like a mix because it's
Speaker 6
a lot of work to have sex for me it's a lot of work I like to put a show
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on oh you do can
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you give us some tips Anita like if the girls are like what do you mean put a show on like give us some tips like what
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do I like to enjoy
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myself I like to feel like
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I'm like dancing and performing is it a
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deal breaker for you if a guy is not good at like eating
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I teach I love you I would teach I would say come on let me say something
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do this do that I don't
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they go like this like they put the tongue very
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um hard and they
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go like and it's
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like and it's like you
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I don't like that right it's just like a little like slithering and you're like it's so bad I was these days oh by the way
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I didn't have sex with guys this whole time with girls I did have so I was teaching this friend of mine how to how to
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eat a pussy these days and
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she was like oh it's that easy and I was like yeah I came in three minutes she came in two wait
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you were practicing on each other yeah and we're just friends yeah there was no like sexual connection oh no I was just teaching her she just like took off your pants like here's my vagina let me teach you fuck okay like we need some tips without taking off your pants and
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us doing it do do you have any like like
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one specific thing that you can adjust for the men or women listening that could maybe just like help
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my god I will say first of all for girls for whatever guys girls to
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eat girls personally
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it's kind of different for each girl I don't know the things I like can be different from the things yep other girls like
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me personally when I'm doing that with a
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girl I go nice and slow
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I do circles and then I just do up and down and I do side by
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side but like slow
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and wet and not
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you're eating a pasta
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it's just like you are
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an ice cream that is cold and
Speaker 6
you cannot freeze your tongue if you go you're gonna freeze your tongue you're gonna feel like ice cold
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I just go nice and slow and then I put a finger on it and I don't
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put the finger on it like no no no no no no no no no
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you know I just put
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it like nice and slow small movement movements and like
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just move you know and then and then um like I don't
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go in the crazy side by
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just go in a smooth keep going with the flow you know
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and the girl is kind of gonna guide you and then
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you can just put the finger in the beginning of the entry of the vagina you don't need to go all the way down there and it's not because the woman's squirt that she came there was
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this time this guy he made me squirt like 20 times and uh I was not coming I was like this doesn't mean something's happening
Speaker 1
men that are obsessed with getting a woman to squirt let me look at me in the eyes
Speaker 6
with his camera stop the next day it hurts oh it
Speaker 1
hurts so bad come on I think sometimes men forget like would you want us like jack hammering your dick yeah no you like when it's like very wet and like you don't need it to be like let's fucking go uh imagine we did that also dry you would have rug burn same for us okay same for
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us there is also like with guys what I do
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um let me try to give an example I
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always use oil when I can when the guy is not full of like some guys are like oh you're using that I love I love using lubricant love it and some guys
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think it's because they're not doing a good job shut the fuck up it's just more
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pleasing yes you use lubricant I put the lubricant I'm gonna teach you a
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new father okay okay here we go I put the
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lubricant and then I go like this first of all
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I go like this mm-hmm and then this is one movement and then you're
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gonna do something there's something you can do that they
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are not gonna understand what you're doing you could
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tell him to close his eyes
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you're gonna do this you're gonna hold here in the bottom and you're gonna do this with
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the hands like this you go
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down and circle
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circle down circle and then you go up and down up and
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you do this but up and down up and down and you do this don't don't he's gonna be like what is happening but you should put um little break in on it but
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you go like this don't do this it's like
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don't don't let it go just open up and down and
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you do this open and close open and close because then you're gonna switch the pressure on it and
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they're gonna be like what is she doing though well you
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got to put lubricant on it right so
Speaker 1
you're kind of like massaging down past their tip and then around their shaft while you're holding the base yeah like this oh
Speaker 3
that's magical and then they get super confused because it feels like a blow job but it's not
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and then you for
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the blow job i like using um things that you're putting in a teeth to to fix it
Speaker 1
plastic yeah yeah the invitaline kind of yeah there's a bunch of brands
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yeah if you use the one down just the one down life-changing
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like you don't have teeth i need
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a it feels like you don't have teeth i just you
Speaker 1
can try i just added that to my amazon cart while you were you
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can ask them wow they're gonna feel like you don't have teeth and just
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on the bottom because it's gonna touch the yeah because it's on the up too it's gonna