Codependencs

In a certain kind of a, especially twentieth century white jewish mail literature, that's a huge theme. We invest so much in another person at all, right? To wher, like, there's all kinds of things that used to seem funny or romantic and now they're somewhere between codependent and abusive when you really look at em. You're really keeping somebody strung along to where they more and more have to rely on you. And i don't now, to me, codependencs, its such an interesting idea,. I tend to roll my eyes a little bit when it’s like an easy response to anything  like caring more about the other person