Holding Space as a Partner in Those Moments

Rom: It's still difficult for me to see some one, especially that i love so dearly, struggling. I tend to personalize that distance and maybe even take offence to it. So holding space as a partner in those moments means having those communications,. coming to understand what is needed and when. And then, of course, tolerating the discomfort that might come up. Rom: What nicol may have verbally expressed that she needed that day was a closeness and a need for love and support. However, there was such mis alignment with the behaviour and actions and what was being said. We can also see when the other person isn't present or grounded in themselves; they are hijacked by