Bhagavad Gita says, Mitya's a Chaurasau Chate. I've seen a monk who told me so I'm perfectly at ease and happy with all people around me. AndHappy at still when nobody is there. How is that possible? Normally, we are the person trying to enjoy the world suffering and no satisfaction. Running away from the world, again suffering. Two different kinds of suffering. You may think that running away or monks and all, it will be very nice to stay in a cave in a mountain. No, it doesn't work unless the mind is trained.