i think it's completely reasonable for you guys to get evaluated by a doctor or mental professional for this problem. If the urges are too strong, getting a professional valuation is a great idea. You're not going to fix this overnight. So treat yourself with compassion and forgiveness,. Or like not being able to fix herself in any way at all. I'm in the process of training coaches, and maybe the coaches can help you guys out a little bit. We're just not there yet in terms of their training. But i think you guys should get together because, yawls come roddery with each other. And you have to struct yure time away from idleness, because you