What Are the Most Common Secrets That Hurt You?

You did this research in which you identified 38 of the most common secrets by surveying a couple of thousand people. What did you discover about within those 38 most common secrets? Say, the ones that that hurt us and and the ones that don't. That's so interesting. One of the things that you write is that all people have secrets, but not all secrets are alike. Some rets don't hurt others do.