i think there are times when we interrupt, and it is an unhelpful stopping of what somebody is going to say. When i experience this sort of like, o my gosh, get me out of your feel i think what would help me is if i understood that there really is no alternative. I'm actually too impatient to have old friends. I just cash it out. But look, there might be times where somebody else wants to talk more than you want to listen,. It's not a professional situation. You do want to learn a way to re frame things so that you can do the kind thing. And i think when people say to youwewait Just let me finish