I Don't Want a Codependent Relationship

When i was going through my spiritual and that the whole thing to me, was finding my independence. I think a lot of people are, unfortunately, in codependent relationships because of how terrifying it is to be alone. You know, there's something thata ramda said to me once. And he goes, father, roll, son, roll. Soul, not roll, like, you know? Then it was so deep. I think about it every day now. It doesn't really feel like it identified with such specific modalities. That the the thing that was floating in the guff or whatever. Is it? Because if i get too much into the father,roll, husband