What Is the Dirty Little Secret?

There's always a grifter at the top who obviously knows better. And they're trying to infiltrate the main stream. It's because there isn't real establishment. There is no real standardization. That's the dirty little secret that nobody can face up wewe on or own. Here i heard a theory that i actually like, and i'm stealing it cause i don't remember where i heard it. The idea that as social conventions break down, the sort of unspoken codes of conduct that govern a social behavior sort of attenuate. Then everybody starts behaving like lawyers and protecting themselves in a lawyerly fashion. But you get more engagement by promulgating something that's really out there,.