The Wasat Is the Heart of the Matters

If we as Muslims could work to perfect our edab and to have proper knowledge of Allah, Subhanahu wa-tala and the son of the Prophet, then everything else can then with Allah's permission fall in line. But if we lack any one of these things that's mentioned within our male folks, then there's going to be something that's extreme either to the right or the left. So sacred manhood is in the middle. And we say this is the wasat. The far extreme is the day use. It's like the weak folk. Or the one doesn't want to take any responsibility. Then on the far right, we have the one who's like a