How to Stop Violence at the Root

"This is a very serious topic but I think it's something that's important to talk about and that shouldn't be like off topic for people to discuss," Vinces says. "I will never in my life defend an abuser but we know exactly how and why they're created." If you are raising a young child right now please give them lots of love and affection and treat them kindly, she adds. And encourage your male friends to like speak out and defend women.