The Cringe Test for Alignment

In this special flip series episode, I sit down with my dear friend Lindsey Schwartz for an honest, expansive conversation about leadership, identity, and what it really takes to build meaningful success without abandoning yourself along the way. We talk about how seasons of growth often require shedding old expectations, redefining ambition, and trusting the inner knowing that calls you toward more alignment—not more pressure.

Lindsey shares her journey of evolving as a leader, embracing uncertainty, and choosing purpose over perfection. Together, we explore boundaries, self-trust, and why slowing down, listening deeply, and honoring your values can actually create more impact, not less.

This episode is for the woman who feels herself changing, who’s ready to lead with clarity and conviction, and who wants her life and business to reflect who she truly is becoming.

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KEY POINTS: 

00:00 Exciting Announcement: First In-Person Retreat

01:30 Welcome to Woman of Influence

02:19 Masterclass on Messaging 02:52 Journey and Insights

03:52 The Importance of Divine Timing

04:22 Navigating Personal and Professional Transitions

06:13 Embracing Change and Authenticity

09:10 Overcoming Financial Challenges

10:18 Post-COVID Reflections and Business Evolution

13:09 Aligning with True Identity and Purpose

17:10 Supporting Yourself Through Transitions

22:35 Refining Messaging and Identity

27:53 Identifying Misalignment with Clients

28:34 Clearing Clutter and Strategy

29:02 The Importance of Energetic Match

29:30 Signaling Depth in Messaging

30:07 Focusing on Premium Clients

31:34 The Cringe Test for Alignment

33:01 Leading with Presence

35:01 Refining Offers for Different Buyer Phases

38:04 Balancing Multiple Passions and Offers

39:59 Steps to Effective Messaging

44:09 Momentum Messaging Movement

46:17 Working with Me

48:31 Final Reflections and Powerhouse Moments

QUOTABLES:

“ Everything is going good. Why do I feel this uneasiness? My ambitions are changing.” - Julie Solomon 

“The thing I've always given myself permission to do is evolve. And I've trusted that the people who are gonna come with me. Are meant to.” - Lindsey Schwartz

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Listen to Lindsey’s Podcast “Powerhouse Women”

RESOURCES:

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