The problem is trying to tease apart what like what we've told women will make them happy. There's this sort of implicit ideal in which there's something platonic about it, or Kantian where the only thing that should matter is this numina. How does a simple claim about basic gender inequality and differences in the way that we treat our daughters versus our sons? Like, how does that have anything to do with Kant's metaphysics? I mean- It's like, you're denied, you just want to deny that this should happen.