The Relationship Between Love and Understanding

I think it's really important and gracious to realize that a lot of hurtful things come from a place of love. People are acting often with the best of intentions, but those intentions can still lead to earful comments. How do you gain that understanding? For me, it took years. I wouldn't even say on my mission, i was the most understanding person. And for me, that change is my sister, samantha am she says shortly after, like, i'm so happy that i can, like,i want to support this community. Younow: Do you have any stories about coming out or life in general? Share them at CNN iReport.