The thing that screws us up the most is the picture in our head of how it's supposed to be. When you went to take your family vacation picture, and so you stopped everyone miserable, made them dress up in the shit, stand by John or vomit,. That was not a picture of your family vacation at all. Maybe we should just start committing to like, what is it called when you're just taking a photo of what's happening? People do that in other cultures. We pose the shit out of our candid pictures. Why are we doing this? It's not always been like this and it's not always like this.