Compassion for falling off the practice

Are you overthinking…or under-processing? What if reflection was the missing piece to becoming (and receiving) everything you’ve ever wanted?

Today, Tara Schuster returns to the Expanded Podcast to explore one of the most impactful healing modalities there is: journaling. Her latest book, This Journal F*cking Works, offers a science-backed and historical look at why journaling is so powerful, woven together with humor and Tara’s own journey of rewriting internal narratives to break free from toxic, repetitive thought loops. It’s an invitation to start “DMing with your soul” and to open up neural pathways of self-understanding, emotional processing, and healing.

Jessica and Tara unpack why ritual matters. Not everything is about maximizing habits, productivity, or “doing it right.” Real transformation often comes from giving your brain space to process lived experience: to be honest, imperfect, and fully human. With this outlook, journaling becomes a bridge between science and intuition, seamlessly supporting your own TBM and personal growth practice.

This conversation is for anyone who feels stuck in mental loops, wants a grounded and research-backed way to connect more deeply with intuition, and yearns to understand who they are at their core.

**Trigger warning: Discussion of self-harm and abusive family dynamics at 00:07:10 through 00:09:28**

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In this episode we talk about:

• Tara’s personal journey and initial skepticism with the effectiveness of journaling
• Why “thinking harder” doesn’t always lead to clarity, and how writing helps the mind complete emotional cycles
• The difference between habits that automate and rituals that animate
• How rituals create meaning, presence, and emotional range
• Why writing by hand deepens comprehension and self-awareness
• The power of naming emotions without storytelling and how journaling builds self-trust over time
• Why clarity often comes after discomfort, not before
• Using journaling to track energy, not just emotions
• How to approach journaling without shame or perfectionism
• Why falling off a practice isn’t failure—it’s proof you care
• How writing reconnects you to your intuition in a distracted world

Mentioned In the Episode: 

• Join Tara’s free 14 day journaling challenge!
• This Journal F*cking Works: The Science, Ritual, and Art of Journaling
• Expanded x Ep. 288 - How To Build High Self-Worth: The Process with Tara Schuster
• The Ritual Effect by Michael Norton
• Expanded x Ep. 99: Dr. Tara Swart on Neuroplasticity and Manifestation
• Expanded x Ep. 206 - EXPLAINED Aligned Action with Dr. Tara Swart
• Expanded x Ep. 376 - Dr. Tara Swart on Signs from the Other Side: Love, Loss, and Connection Beyond Death
• Expanded x Ep. 176 - Elise Loehnen - Getting Back into Balance & Finding Expansion
• Expanded x Ep. 252 - When Will You Be Good Enough? - The Price Women Pay To Be Good - Elise Loehnen
• Expanded x Ep. 371 - How to Reframe Jealousy and Step Into Your Power with Elise Loehnen
• The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron
• Dr. Jennifer Freed on IG
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• This Journal F*cking Works: The Science, Ritual, and Art of Journaling
• Join Tara’s free 14 day journaling challenge!
• Connect on IG @Taraschuster
• Substack @taraschuster
• Check out her other books Glow in the Fucking Dark and Buy Yourself the Fucking Lilies

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