How to Override Privacy Options in a User Threat Model?

The idea is to protect the user at the same ti they know better about their own situation, too. It's like the trade off between, like, how hows a user threat modeling? There could be cases where i trust paul and may not care if i leak some utxo information or he knows some information about my note or the txo i used. But maybe i can say, you know what, tony sabrou, he knows i'm, i'm a paying him enlightening right now. He already knows my note idea. Or maybe the wallet will help somehowd, that's obviousy, we haven't built that.