I Don't Know What to Do if You Want to Marry Someone

I think if you marry someone, like you should then at least have like the decency to support your partner in difficult situations. His traumatic past and his childhood does not excuse his actions currently,. But it allows us to give compassion for where he's coming from. I do understand that's easier said than done to stand up to your family. You know, we've all lived that firsthand at one point or another. He had a rage fit in the car, just yelling and lashing at me. In my defense, I said he just sat and let it, his mom continuously implies a gold digger. She never outright called me a golddigger. So it was all in my head