I Don't Know What to Say, but I'm So Glad You Told Me This

Sometimes, depending on what's going on or what she tells you, sometimes the best response is this. This actually comes from burnet brown and i've used this with my kids. And believe it or not, it's incredibly effective. When you say, but i'm so glad you told me, the message that you're sending her is this is an environment that's free from blame, shame or pain,. Because i'm here with you. I'm feeling the pain with you. You don't know exactly what to do right now, but i am just going to be here with you," he says.