The Constant Cycle of Gift Giving in Japan

There's a constant cycle of gifts giving, but it's very easy to slide. If you're not like clued into it, it's very slight. But there's always this idea of debt. Like for instance, father in law, it's like you owe a debt to your father in law. There's even something, I mean, it's called own, own. Sometimes the only way you can repay your own to your parents is by you having parents. And so there's this constant cycle of like feeling a burden. A burden is very, very controlling. So that's when you get like weird, weird situations.