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You're Not Keeping Score, Right?
You're digging the well before you get thirsty. And then you're also not keeping score, right? You're not like, well, i do this thing for them, exactly. They owe me this. Because that then poisons the well, and they can feel o, like, o, so he just did that thing cause he wants something from me. If you're keeping score like that, you have a really shady future ahead of you. It's some point that has to be a basis where with a spouse, you want more for the spouse than you want for yourself. That's just not really a very promising foundation.